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"Leaves on the River"

Steven Hayes, Russ Harris, mindfulness-based cognitive behavioral therapy

What is "Leaves on the River"?

"Leaves on the River" — ACT: cognitive defusion — thoughts on leaves, you are the sky-observer. "Leaves on the River" is a technique of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: cognitive defusion.

"Leaves on the River" is a technique of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: cognitive defusion. Not believing thoughts and not fighting them — observing them as mental events on leaves floating downstream. "I am not good enough" — on a leaf. "I will succeed" — also on a leaf. "What if it doesn't work?" — on a leaf. You are not the river and not the leaves, but the sky observing the flow. Deepening the Observer position after removing importance. In DreamsFlow — weaving in with intrusive thoughts about desire.

Key facts

OriginSteven Hayes, Russ Harris, mindfulness-based cognitive behavioral therapy
Role in DreamsFlowWoven in
Best forIntrusive thoughts of 'I won't succeed' / 'I need more'; After transurfing — deepening the observer

Techniques and elements

  • The bank of a calm river, autumn, branches over the water
  • Each thought is a leaf, floating downstream
  • It doesn't matter if the thought is 'good' or 'bad' — on a leaf
  • You are the sky observing, not the river and not the leaves
  • Connection with the observer of transurfing

Pros

  • Fighting thoughts strengthens them — ACT teaches otherwise
  • Works with obsession about goals
  • Beautiful imagery for meditation
  • Complements transurfing and Sedona

Cons

  • It can be difficult to 'let go' of sticky thoughts
  • Does not replace action — only attitude towards thoughts
  • In depression, the imagery may seem empty
  • Requires repetition

Who it suits

Best for

  • Intrusive thoughts of 'I won't succeed' / 'I need more'
  • After transurfing — deepening the observer
  • Tendency towards intrusive thoughts
  • Those who are tired of 'interrupting' negativity with affirmations

With caution or not suitable

  • Requires active visualization of goals without pause
  • Acute suicidality — a specialist is needed
  • No figurative thinking

Notable followers

  • Steven Hayes — Creator of ACT
  • Russ Harris — "The Happiness Trap", popularizing ACT
  • Mindfulness Practices — Cognitive defusion and observation of thoughts

Popular exercises

River and Leaves5–8 min
  • River, autumn, calm flow
  • Each thought is a leaf on the water, do not cling
  • "I am not good enough" — the leaf has floated away
  • "I will succeed" — also a leaf
  • You are the sky above the river, just observing

FAQ

What is "Leaves on the River" — a method or a practice?

"Leaves on the River" is a psychotechnique (method) that DreamsFlow weaves into daily personal meditations and affirmations. "Leaves on the River" is a technique of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: cognitive defusion. Not believing thoughts and not fighting them — observing them as mental events on leaves floating downstream. "I am not good enough" — on a leaf. "I will succeed" — also on a leaf. "What if it doesn't work?" — on a leaf. You are not the river and not the leaves, but the sky observing the flow. Deepening the Observer position after removing importance. In DreamsFlow — weaving in with intrusive thoughts about desire.

Who is the “"Leaves on the River"” method for?

Best for: Intrusive thoughts of 'I won't succeed' / 'I need more'; After transurfing — deepening the observer; Tendency towards intrusive thoughts; Those who are tired of 'interrupting' negativity with affirmations. Use with caution: Requires active visualization of goals without pause; Acute suicidality — a specialist is needed; No figurative thinking

What exercises and practices does “"Leaves on the River"” include?

River and Leaves. Step-by-step instructions are on this DreamsFlow technique page.

What are the pros and cons of “"Leaves on the River"”?

Pros: Fighting thoughts strengthens them — ACT teaches otherwise; Works with obsession about goals; Beautiful imagery for meditation; Complements transurfing and Sedona. Cons: It can be difficult to 'let go' of sticky thoughts; Does not replace action — only attitude towards thoughts; In depression, the imagery may seem empty; Requires repetition

Is there a quiz for the “"Leaves on the River"” method?

Yes. DreamsFlow has a compatibility quiz for “"Leaves on the River"” — a short survey that shows how well the technique fits you and what may block practice. Take it in Tests or from this page.

Can I practice “"Leaves on the River"” online?

Yes. In DreamsFlow “"Leaves on the River"” is available online as part of personal evening meditations and morning affirmations — after you add goals and choose techniques in your account.

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